Tuesday, September 30, 2008

What should I do?

OK as some of you know, Mr. Pinky and I were seeing other people for a little while. Well, If you have read previous posts, you will know that he had briefly talked to a girl that was 15 (he did not know that she was 15 at the time and broke it off when she found out.) I had emailed her and told her that He and I were back together and that she needed to back off. she did for a while but I opened my myspace account yesterday and there was a message from her. This is what she said to me:

umm okay i dont no if u go this messeges that i sent u or not but.... "B" made out with me in his car at the far and then he left and went and got the shop keys and we was going to screww but i chickend out .. but no he didnt not talk to me after he found out i was 15... that day i called the shop and asked for himm... he called me that after noon on the apsulte towing cell phone if u dont belive me ... look at the phone records..

(PS far is supposed to be fair. Remember she is a 15 year old at a HS is kentucky!!)

So I replied with:

so why did you keep calling him? you knew he didn't want to talk to you?

Well, Today she calls Mr. Pinky 3 diffrent times. The first time he answered the phone b/c he didn't know who it was. After that he ignored her.

What should I do? Should I call her and tell her to stop? My mother thinks I should call her mother and tell her that her 15 year old daughter will not leave a 23 year old man alone and continues to call him. Or should I just leave it be and let my BF handle it?

What should I do?

Saturday, September 27, 2008

A Wedding Date has been set! (again)

So Mr. Pinky and I are going to a wedding today at 4 PM. The going to the wedding has sparked our own conversation about getting married. As you know, we have been engaged for some time now but we sorta kinda broke up but we are back together. So I brought up the marrage topic again and we have set a date! 10-9-10 yes that is 2 years away but that is a start. 2 years goes faster than you think and with the problems that this year has brought, it is best to wait anyway. So yup its official I am a Fiance again.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

The incredible shrinking me!

So I started back in June trying to lose weight (mostly in efforts to win my BF back). So I started out with a weight of arround 220LB.I just started watching what I was eating and going to the gym. I have dropped down to 180 as of now. I have went from a size 16-18 to a 12-13. I have cut out all soda. I only drink water and juice. for lunch I eat weight watcher TV Dinner or someting of the sort. I have slacked off on going to the gym but I am going back today after work. if I had my camera here, I would post a before and after pic but i don't have it with me so... Oh wellz!!!

Monday, September 22, 2008

Things I *Heart*

This is a random list of items that I *heart*

my BF (even though I could kil him sometimes!!)
the Fam
Wal- Mart
Target (aka Tar"zjay")
my newfound skinny (will post about that later)
fake chanel sunglasses
shoes and bags
stuffed monkeys
French manacures
French toast
French anything
my BF for letting me hire a cleaning lady!

these are just a few of my favorite things !!!!

Friday, September 19, 2008

Men cant live with them, can't live without them

So as promised, i will divulge the gritty details of the goings on of Mr. Pinky and I.
We have been together since October of 2002. We were 17 when we started dating. (Awww, HS sweethearts!!! Mush). He moved in with my parents and I our Senior year of HS because of a bad situation with his dad. After we graduated, We purchased a house together (it's in his name and his mom's name for credit reasons). Every thing seemed peachy keen. He proposed to me in March of 2006 ( I think! Its been so long ago that i have forgotten the year!! Def March though!)

Fast forward to 2007. I had set a wedding date and even began shopping for dresses and the like. He kept putting off important things like I don't know... EVERYTHING!!! So early this year a good friend of ours started dating a girl who owns a flower shop. I made the comment " Its a good thing that Tony's dating Kayla, we can get a good deal on wedding flowers!" He responded with "I'm not so sure that I want to get married."

Enter downward spiral of my life.

This was late May early June 2008. Nothing else came up over the next few days about the conversation. So a week or so later I brought up that it really bothered me what he said. We began to talk and it came out that he was no longer happy in the relationship and he has been having these feelings for a while and that's why he was putting wedding plans off. He told me that he was no longer attracted to me because of my weight and my attitude (I can be a T total BITCH!! I admit it!) So, we talk for a while and decided that maybe we should see other people.

So, about a week or so he goes to guard duty (He's in the National Guard) and a guy there introduces him to a girl named Cortney. Come to find out she is preggers (not by him). They date for a while (3-4 weeks.) during this time I have turned to Internet dating and have gone on one actual date and it was horrendous.

He leaves for Iowa for a month for the Guard. Things seem to be getting better Fast foreword to end of said month. I have not gone on any dates since the aforementioned one. He stopped talking to Cortney but has started talking to Kristen. She is 4 years younger than him and can't drive. (We own 2 car lots so our lives revolve around driving!!!)

I have begun talking to a guy named Jack that I have met through a dating website I never imagined that I would do this but whatever). So Mr. Pinky returns home on a Friday everything seems great until Saturday when we get into an argument. So I said screw it. I had made plans to meet Jack the next weekend but I call him and bump it up to Sunday. So to make me mad Mr. Pinky takes Kristen out Sunday as well. But, what he doesn't know is that I like this Jack Guy and don't care if he takes Kristen out.

So after less than a week of me seeing someone, Mr. Pinky decides we need to get back together. So I break it off with Jack. He breaks it off with Kristen. This is on Saturday. Wednesday, He sneaks out and has lunch with her (mind you we are supposed to be back together.) To some this may be OK but to me this is cheating. I go absolutely psycho bitch on him and tell him its either me or her and he needs to effing choose NOW. He says he is sorry and wants to be with me.

So this was about 3 weeks ago when this all went down. Last weekend he had Guard duty again (its really not as often as it seems!) Saturday night we had a huge argument about something stupid so Sunday morning when I tried to call him he didn't answer. when is voicemail picked up I decided to delete all the old messages he had (I have a weird pet peeve about leaving old messages on machines and calls on a caller ID) There were 2 from a random girl named Chasity. I called him back and went off on him and told him I knew he was cheating on me and we were through. We talked through it and... he was not cheating on me.( She is a 15 year old girl that he talked to at the the fair. He didn't know she was 15 and when he found out, he quit talking to her. ) SO when he got home, he was not in the mood to talk so we kinda just kept to ourselves. Monday morning I brought up the fact that she was calling him and he didn't tell me. I seen it as deceitful because he was not telling me. He told me that Kristen was still calling and texting as well (mid conversation she sent him a text).

Being the aggressive person I am I sent her the following email via Facebook Monday afternoon at work:

Kristen, I would like to politely ask you to stop calling/texting Brian. We are back together now and I am just respectfully asking you woman to woman to please stop. Things are going well between us and we are trying to make things work out. So please be respectful of my wishes. If the tables were turned I would do the same. Thanks Jessicia

and she replied with:

yea. i'm trying 2 let him know i want nothing more than friends from him, he texted me the other day begging me 2 have lunch w/ him. i told him i started seeing other ppl. i went 2 lunch w/him yesterday as friends and he kept attempting to do things to show pda and i kept pushing him away and that if he continued it that i wouldn't even be his friend. i dont want him like that. i dont give 2nd chances in relationships. i wish ya'll the best but i think u deserve better than someone begging other women 4 a date

She calls him as soon as she sends me the return email and tells him that I emailed her. He calls me and asks me why I e-mailed her. I responded with the question "Why did you go to lunch with Kristen Sunday? He knew he was caught (again). I told him this time I was dead serious. That he needed to think long and hard about if he wanted to be with me or not. To make a long story a little less long, we are back together.

He texted Kristen and told her that we were back together and that we were going to make it work. I emailed the 15 year old and told her to leave him alone. She called him and he told her the same thing. So now all is well. He has been nicer to me this week than he has been in the last few years. I hope that things have changed for good.

If you have read this entire thing: THANK YOU!!!! I know it was long, but in all honesty it could have been 10 times longer, but I am trying to get people to read this not scare them away!!!

Comments are greatly appreciated!!!!

Pink is the color of...

I have never "blogged" before so here is an honest stab at it!!! LOL.
I am 22 years old and own my own businesses (yes plural!). Own 2 car lots and a towing company. I shair all of this with my boyfriend-ish, husband-ish type person. Mr pinky (he won't like that name but oh well he'll get the hell over it won't he!). Our relationship has been on the outs here lately.
Back in June he decided that he wanted to see other people. Well, as you'd imagine that didn't go over so well. But we are now working on theses issues and are back together. More to come on that front later!
Thank you for reading and please comment! and add me to your fave's I will be updating often!